Romantic Ideas for Her
Maybe she is the love of your life, or maybe she is just someone you are starting to care for. Regardless of where your relationship with her is, the same thing always remains true: women love and crave romance! Why do all 'chick flicks' have the same themes to them? Why do women dream of being swept off their feet and carried away by their prince charming into the sunset and happy ending? The fact is that it is part of who they are. Women in general have a far greater emotional nature than do men. Women are more in touch with where a relationship is, where it is going, and they so often pick up on little details that will escape most men. But you won't be most men after you are through reading this page! You will learn how to interact with a woman, and make those romantic dreams of hers a reality! Are you ready to be that knight in shining armor?
As said above, women will pick up on little details and will factor that into what they think of a man. Men are generally more big picture kind of people. They can see a problem or an opportunity and in their minds they will create the simplest response or solution they can, and then it is 'figured out' and they can move on. On the other hand, most women will run across that same situation, and weigh several options before deciding on what they should do and ensure the problem is solved before they put it out of their mind. So as a guy, you do need to take note of the little things that you do or say, because those things may seem small to you, but to her they will either be a warning sign or another point scored for you.
What Women Want
There are a couple of things that every guy has to realize before they can successfully interact with a women on a deep level. First, they need to realize that women do not react like men do. You can't treat a women like you would one of your guy friends and take verbal shots at them and always be sarcastic and expect that it will always be taken in good fun. You can't make plans and then break them at the last minute. And you must not talk big if you are unable to back it up because chances are, she has been around other guys like that and she will be able to see right through you. Any woman worth pursuing will require a high level of respect from you and will call you on it if she doesn't get it.
Second, there are many different qualities that women will look for in a man, but these are always the constant requirements: Loyalty, Honesty, Reliability, and a feeling of Security. A woman needs to be assured that she can trust you and that you will stand by her through anything that comes up. If she doesn't feel safe or feels that she is unable to depend on you, then she will not be able to deeply love you and will always keep you at a 'safe' distance. You want your girl to know that you are there for her and that no matter what happens in her life, you are the rock that will always stand by her. I'm sure that you have heard it before, a woman wants a man that can 'make them laugh', they want someone who they can have fun with, who is always interesting and challenging, and all of that is important to keep her interested and attracted to you. But the 4 qualities listed above are necessary and you won't be able to really get close to her without demonstrating them to her.
The truth is that men NEED women. Not just for sexual fulfillment or the continuation of the human race, but to keep them civilized. In a civilized society, women really have all the power. And that is because women are the force that tames men and guides them to alternatives besides force and survival of the fittest. Women can make a man change his ways just for a chance to get with them, and as long as women have a high standard for their men, men will continually strive to reach for that.
Ideas for Her
- Surprise her with an already prepared bubble bath with scents and salts. When she gets done, finish the surprise by wrapping her in a towel you've warmed in the dryer!!
- Place a little love note under the driver side windshield wiper or taped to the steering wheel of her car.
- After making dinner for her, prepare strawberries with fondue chocolate for dessert
- Buy her 11 red roses and one white rose to put in the middle. Attach a note that says 'There is always one that stands out from the crowd... you :)'
Romance Tips to Remember
•Loyalty, Honesty, Reliability, and a feeling of Security are what every girl is looking for in a guy.
•Give a good effort to be romantic for her and she will love you more for it.